Words: Elodie Marriott

3 stars

Graham Kay feels the weight of his family’s past and his responsibilities to them keenly. But he’s a comedian, so he’s found a way to make it light-hearted. Bounding into the room, Kay starts the show with high-fives for everyone. Despite some remaining covid uneasiness about touching strangers, this connection grounds the audience. It settles them into an affectionate account of his brother Pete, who’s severely autistic.

Pete and Me centres familial dysfunction, as with hindsight he’s been able to pick out the comedic gems of situations that caused him grief in the moment. Whether it’s his dad’s refrain of: “Don’t emasculate me in public” or Pete’s peculiarities which he’s come to love, Kay assembles a fond highlight reel of memorable moments.

Through a slideshow of Spiderman poses and voicemails filled with Bert and Ernie impressions, he lovingly builds up an image of Pete and the value that he adds to Kay’s life. His praise for his brother is genuine and the show is an enjoyable education and important reminder that those who don’t fit neatly into society’s boxes are still worthy of our time, patience and love.

Pete and Me is perhaps one of the most heart-warming comedy shows you’ll see at the Fringe.

Graham Kay: Pete and Me
Gilded Balloon Patter House, Dram
18:20
Aug 8-11, 13-26